Anger issues are among the most common themes that come up when working with neurolinguistic programming (NLP) clients. Often when I meet someone for the first time, clients will be concerned that they are having angry outbursts or feel pent-up …
In the last blog I visited the concept of ‘metaprograms’ – the general approaches to life that influence our view of the world and affect the success of our choices and outcomes, both positively and negatively. There are no ‘wrong’ …
Choice is good, right? Most of the time, I’d agree with you. In NLP terms we talk about flexibility and choice as empowering. And they are! But there are times when choice can slow you right down: Here`s the scenario. …
I had an email the other day from a past client who I haven’t heard from for a while. It’s lovely to hear from people I have worked with, and especially nice when they occasionally just check in and tell …
As we go through life, stuff just happens. It can feel like we are being carried on a wave and there just isn’t time to properly focus on what is happening and what we are feeling. But moods and states …
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Many clients, when they first come to see me, feel they are stuck. There are so many different situations in which you can find yourself where there just doesn’t seem to be any choice. Here are just a few examples: being in …
Stage-fright on some level, is pretty much a given with many of the performers and speakers that I work with. On one level it is completely understandable. Few of us like the idea of standing up there in front of …
What sort of income do you have currently? How comfortable are you right now with how much you earn? Which of these statements fits you best? I’ve got plenty of money to get everything I need, there’s no desperate need …
Picture this: You are walking down a local street one warm sunny day and you see this person coming towards you. They are getting on in life, probably around 80 years old. Surprisingly hale and healthy for that age, this …